Sunday, January 17, 2010

每个人都是独立的存在, 可是独立不代表孤单。可以照顾自己的人,也需要关怀和支持。

亲, 顾名思义就是和我们有着血浓于水关系的人。

爱,不只有男女之间的山盟海誓,亲人和朋友的情义, 也是一种爱的存在。

很多时候,我们都面临着无数竖立在亲人与爱人之间的抉择。

有人说爱是自私的,也有人说爱是不分你我的。

一个人最内心的一面,往往都会在这种情况下而表露无遗。

我不兜圈子,凭良心对得起自己, 把所看到的用文字记录下来。。。

几个月前,我的岳父,脑中风了,病不致命因为发现的早。 及时地给与治疗,总算逃过一劫。

不幸的是,因为脑有血块而暂时丧失了部份记忆。他对我的记忆应该是很模糊,对我太太也是一样。。。 可是他却依然不停的叫着他儿子们的名字,也时常的问起他的外孙(我的儿子)的事情。

说真的,当时他丧失了很大部份的记忆, 当看着他躺在病床上,不断的问外孙的事情。我很想哭,因为我感受到他是很疼爱我的儿女。那份无私的关怀深深的让我看见了亲情的存在!

岳父最关心的就是大儿子(我太太的哥哥)。更不时的问儿子有没有来看他。可以感觉到的是,岳父需要儿子的陪伴。在这个艰难的时刻,他很想有亲人的陪伴与关怀。

可是,我看到的是,他的大儿子,为了任性的未婚妻而丢下了爸爸,去泰国购物旅行了!原因是泰国治安不好,不好让未婚妻一个人去。

我知道了,很伤心。我是看到了亲情的背叛。

岳父虽然逃过一劫,可是他也是需要亲人的照顾啊!任性的未婚妻,明知道泰国治安不好,你要阻止她啊。就算付了钱。也可以下次再去啊!!泰国不会消失的!

那几天,可能是你爸爸在这一生里最需要你的时刻了!

 

在你需要爸爸的时候,不离不弃的牵着你走过了无数的岁月。

在爸爸需要你的时候,你却不能好好珍惜和他的日子!我无言以对了。。。

 

幸福是有个人任何时候都对你不离不弃。

大家趁还有时间,要好好地珍惜和父母亲共处的时间。

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Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Another year is approaching to the end. For me, this year looks like a year of change, been into a lot of issues, joyful moments and pressures too.

Let’s start doing a few flashback before the new year resolution :-)

Start with the Longest Chinese New Year holiday that I ever enjoy during my career life. That is from the 1st to 15th day of January in lunar calendar! I wonder when I can have a holiday as long as this again…

Some weeks after my long holiday, with the correct timing, I got promoted to Professional Services Manager. A managerial role which most people dream of. This is another significant milestones for my career too.

More good news to come! My son, Zhe Yu, arrive on the labor day. Along with my daughter, both of them make up a “ 好”word in Mandarin :-)  . At the age of 30, I have a happy family, sustainable income and lots of friends. My life is perfect!

Since a lot of good news for the first half… there must be some bad news to balance it. During the July – August, I were knocked out by the Hand Foot Mouth decease which also granted me a few paid holiday. LoL.

Well, one year must travel once! That’s the statement from my wife. This year, we landed in Krabi, a very relax place with fantastic scenery and tasty food!

Due to the change of office location, I had no choice but to join the Proton army. I am now own a Saga! Let’s hope it last for another 30 years! LoL.

Work wise, I had completed a project for Netgear with the PM role. This is a project that really brighten up my profile! There are not much of people has this kind of commercial experiences with world class player! Also, this is a project with interesting technology, too bad I could not stay until I watched it go for the public release…

Another memorable moment, I had a handshake and chit-chat New Zealand prime minister. Although I am just a small potato but I feel happy and honor too.

Okay, on middle of November, I had tendered my manager seat and take up an offer to be a software developer again. Talk about rapid changes huh? This is shortest notice that I ever serve which is 2 weeks!

Many people say it is a waste to give up the bright career… very few sincerely wish me all the best on it. Perhaps you see this is not a wise move but at times we do not have a choice too. At least, you could have ask me on the reason for favoring such option before commenting on my decision :-)

WoW! Year 2009, it is definitely bring me a lot of memories… Been into up and down in many situations but still manage to survive. Let’s hope for a better year 2010!

Have you start to recall things happened in 2009 to see what you can do better? Have you started to plan for next year?

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Friday, February 20, 2009

I was cleaning my desk and I found something memorable. It reminds me about the milestones of my life…

That is a sweet dream memory to be a company director! Definitely hilarious too! hahaha

This a fun post… but seriously, how many people attended this training before?

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Tuesday, August 07, 2007

两个星期前的晚上,家里停电了。少了电力的供应,有很多事情都无法进行。circle 不可以上网,没有电视看,没有音乐听,没有了风扇,没有了灯光,一切一切的事情就这样的停顿了。这就是所谓的文明吧!sigh

停电的夜晚,让我想起了在非法木屋区居住的情况。 因为那里是常常停电的。可能你们会认为非法木屋是很简陋的吧。生活环境也真的是有点抱歉的,可是基本的生活设备还是齐全的。你们应该很难想象在城市,居然还存在着非法木屋。现在已经被拆掉了哦。。。cry

在那里住了20多年,居家的前面就是老爸的修车厂。每天的废气不断的排出。吸了20多年,也还没有死啊!证明了人是有很强的生命力和适应力的。goodjob

屋子的后方就是一片树丛。里面充满了山珍海味蛇虫鼠蚁。还记得我房间的天花板上时常会有老鼠追逐的声音。这让我想起了有一次有老鼠死在天花板上,腐烂了,然后有虫虫从天花板点下来 coldsweat 。。。 哈哈!现在想起才知道恶心, 当时的我根本不当是一回事 desk 。。。 呵呵!

除此还有几次家里入蛇的情况。ogod 哈哈!是啊!蛇~~~软啪啪, 滑潺潺的蛇哦!你有试过打蛇吗?有听过蛇的惨叫声吗??我们都不会抓蛇,所以一有发现就把它打死!namor 不要告我哦!我没钱的。。。 很多的情况都是老爸或者年长的长辈操刀打蛇的。我只有一次的经验。那一次是那条蛇爬入了我的睡房。。。 对啊!睡房!我叫了外公来帮忙。 嘻嘻!毕竟我一个人还是会怕的 shy。。。顺利的把蛇杀了后,在清理凶案现场时,才发现那条死蛇居然是蜗居在饭厅的橱子后面。因为在那里发现了一大堆蛇大便 surprise 。。。 哇哈哈哈!与蛇同居了多久啊?时常都会发现一些小动物例如四脚蛇,变色龙,田鼠,青蛙等等的。哦!还有水鱼!!可以吃的水鱼啊!yes

报纸还时常写城市里的小孩失去了去大自然接触的机会。到底我不是城市小孩还是报纸乱写啊?sweat

哈哈!真的难以想象以前的生活。比起来,现在真的改善了非常多了。xingfu

我的生活还有趣吧?可惜的是当时没有相机,不然可以图文并茂的给你们看!yawn

好了,不多写了,免得有人看到杜兰。。。bye

Tuesday, August 07, 2007 8:08:43 AM UTC  #    Comments [2]  | 
Wednesday, May 30, 2007

I have nothing to blog... really... but could not say nothing at all. I just do not know what and how to share with you... Anyway, perhaps I should write something funny to entertain you :) So you will come back often!!

10 things I hate about you, ok? ... ... which? what? why? I hate you!?  You hate me?!

Don't be mad, ok? It is all about my past experiences on how girls reject me after some days of dating  shopping? fetching? partying or what-so-ever you can think that a girl can do with you during day time :) . I believe that normal guys will start asking the girl to "acknowledge" the relationship status after some days of dating if nothing worst happen. Perhaps you are too handsome to be rejected else... you must raise this question.

To be frank with you, I noticed that girls do not like guys to ask "Am I your boy friendf?", "We are couple now?", "Can I say that you are my girl friend?" and etc... But when I was young, I love to ask these questions because ... you know -> Lack of confidence <- . As time goes on, asking this kind of questions is like ending the relationship by myself... Haha! It is because the girls will feel frustrated / annoyed / pressured if guys keep asking...

I never think it is very hard to give a clear and straight-to-the-point answer. Perhaps some girls are just born to be playful... Anyway, I am not going to discuss with you on how girl's thinking about guys. I want to share with you is the 10 lamest reasons for a girls to reject a boy after some datings! Remember the key phrase... "after some datings"

 

10 lamest reasons for a girl to reject a boy

1. I know you are nice and suitable to me but I still cannot forget about my ex...

2. You are such a nice guy but I am not a good girl for you...

3. You looks so cute but I am looking for someone that is macho, tall and handsome as Nicholas Tse or F4 or Takeshi Kaneshiro or Tom Cruise!

4. You know? You are the best guy I met. But I am not ready to have a serious relationship but I don't want you to feel bad. Can you continue to take care on me until I am ready?

5. We don't have the "click"/"flip"/"tick"/or what-so-ever you like to use for connecting the relationship between us.

6. I treated you like my brother, we cant fall in love on each other, you understand?

7. I wish I can be with you but I am currently having a relationship or loving someone without his knowledge... or my ex still after me!

8. I know you too much already so we cant be lover...

9. You born in year 1979...

10. You are FAT

 

Haha. I have more but the most notable are listed above... If you have more reasons, please leave a comment to share with us! :-D

Wednesday, May 30, 2007 12:38:50 PM UTC  #    Comments [1]  | 
Saturday, May 12, 2007

Trust is hard to gain, easy to lose and nearly impossible to win back. How much you agree with this?

Always, past performance is no garantee of future behavior. How true is this?

You may agree or disagree or stay neutral for the above sentences. I read a lot recently... a lot means really a lot. The reason I start reading this much because I need to have more points of view. Likewise, I need to gather more thinking "logic" too. Anyway, let's move back to the topic. True Testimonials.

After more than half decade of working life. I met a lot of people. Getting know them from strangers to party buddies. No age range, no race difference, no language difficulties. Although I am kinda lack of social skills but I still have a open characteristic to accept new comers or being nice to someone who approaches me.

Most notable, I met people who recognized my capabilities and professionalism. I am glad that I met them. They gave me valuable lessons during my career. Staying protected by their shadows enable me to gain more experiences without much interferences. I am thankful that I am able to maintain a very nice relationship with them even though I left them to pursue my very own career advancement.  

How many people manage to maintain the relationship after job resignation? I always emphasize on professionalism. Even you leave a company, you must leave without any conflict or problem. I am glad that I never spoil any relationship with the people who I worked before... well... not all but almost all. Haha!

Professionalism or good-will is always intangile and nothing to measure. It seldom pay back but if you ever has the chance for the "pay back". I believe it will be something very excited and enjoyable.

I got the "pay back" recently with Jobstreet.com Testimonials! Thank you very much on the very kind and presentable testimonials!

 

 

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Sunday, April 22, 2007

好了。 我准备好了。 可以开始写一些你们想知道的近况了。

我知道你们都很关心我。 我也知道就算我没有更新, 你们还是有上来看看我的Blog。 就算没有留言, 我还是知道的。。。

在说我的新的工作之前, 还是先让你们知道我的工作历程比较好。。。 免得你们不明白,我所看到和感受到的。。。

6年前 (2001), 我当过door-to-door的蛋糕推销员。 每天15小时的工作, 不停的游说, 不停的走, 还有不停的被人拒绝。。。 但是得到了宝贵的行销经验。清楚地了解到钱是得来不易的。。。

我第一份电脑业工作是在一家经营汽车卫星定位防盗系统的公司当系统管理员。 那是一份我非常喜欢的工作, 不是因为我可以学以致用。 只是在这份工作里, 在一个小小的办公室, 我遇到了在我生命中最重要的人。 我更遇到了我的恩师, 也就是我的经理, 他虽然没有时常的给我教导, 但是我在他的身上却学到了很多。。。 尤其是对工作的热忱和坚持。 如果6年前, 我没有遇到他, 我可以肯定地告诉你, 现在的我一定还是搞不清楚何谓敬业乐业, 还有爱你所做, 做你所爱。 可是这间公司的资金管理有问题。。。 我工作了3个月 (2001年11月), 就面临了我人生的第一次失业。 公司裁员了, 我不能幸免。 我没有觉得难过, 因为当时我可以了解他们的心情。。。

被裁了之后, 我还有点迷失了。 但是我的恩师在我还没有真正失业的时候, 他给我介绍了一份工作。 就在我家附近的一间工厂当电脑事务员。 在这家工厂我意识到了我自己的潜能和价值。这是一家上市公司, 就我一个人负责电脑部 (真的是前途无限)。 我真的是看到了机会。。。 对22岁的我来说, 真的是一个十年难得一逢的机会。  因为哪有人肯去相信一个黄毛小子。 我全心全意地工作, 最可惜的是当时我的人际关系的技巧还不如现在(虽然现在的我并不是很会交际, 但是比以前好了, 至少会尽量让老板开心。。。) 。 工作了一个月, 我就和上司(General Manager) 闹翻了。 很帅气的丢信, 也很有个性的离开了。 自己放弃了这么的一个机会。(我也可以告诉你。。。 我真的错过了很多机会。。。 但是我没有后悔)

丢了信后(2002年2月), 我大约失业了1个月, 我的恩师应该是可怜我吧。。。 当时他们的资金也恢复了。 他叫我回去当电脑程式编写员。 我当然二话不说的答应了。 就这样的工作了4年, 当然4年的日子也是动荡不安的。 这里曾经有两个月没有发薪水因为资金问题, 我虽有埋怨, 但是我也继续的工作, 因为我就是那种有义气的人。。。 也有试过减薪20% 。。。 我还是留了下来, 因为我想和公司看到最后。。。(以后有机会在细细长谈。。。)

2年前(2005), 自己觉得是时候到新的坏境去开拓自己的前途了。 毕竟我呆了4年, 也是不上不下的。 人望高处, 就是这样, 我接受了一个好友的邀请, 去到了他工作的地方帮他的忙。 匆匆的过了两年, 浪费了时间。。。 没有任何收获的离开了。 我没有埋怨任何人, 因为我知道很多事情是要你情我愿的。 至少在这份工作里, 我有我的坚持和立场。获得了杰出员工奖也得到了一些人的认同,虽然最后还是达不到我想要的目标。。。

 

Sunday, April 22, 2007 4:05:15 PM UTC  #    Comments [0]  | 
Saturday, April 14, 2007

我们已经不可能在一起了。。。 想起我们的一切, 从前的回忆, 现在的生活, 还记得你总爱坐在我的身边。

我们无所不谈, 谈你家的事, 说我的冷笑话。。。 还有我们的心事。

我们都知道这里不是你想要的地方, 总有一天你会找到更理想的依靠。 我只希望时间会慢慢的过, 好让我沉醉在这似有若无的关系上。

我没有得到时间的怜惜,你还是离开了,没有牵挂, 也没有预告, 静静的从我身边离开了。

甚么都没有留下, 就只剩下我对你的回忆。 一样你不想留下, 却又带不走的东西。。。

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Tuesday, April 10, 2007

  在一个没有星的夜空 
  没有风也觉得很冷

  一个人  盖着你用过的棉被
  少了你  我心疼

 

 

  没有太阳的天空

  没有阳光也觉得热

  一个人  吃着你爱吃的冰棒

  少了爱  冰也不溶化


 

  到底我做错了什么 为什么你要离开

  大声的喊我还爱你 为什么你却不肯回来

  到底你还爱不爱我 为什么你如此绝情。。。

  要忘记你是在太难 为了爱我愿意等待

 

 

 

  詞﹕Kok mING
  曲﹕陳明漢
  11 May 2001

  歌名:少了你

   WithoutYou.mp3 (1.88 MB)

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Tuesday, April 03, 2007

那天当我看见你的时候就想跑前去你面前跟你说。。。 。。。 我真的很喜欢你。 无耐的我却只会对着你傻笑,之后就没有再见到你了。。。

我每天都不知道自己在做什么, 每天只想将所有自己快乐的事告诉你。。。 。。。想写信告诉你。

打电话告诉你, 告诉你。。。我的小猫死了, 我很难过,

我的考试成绩不错, 很开心,今天的天气很好, 想和你去吹吹风。

你知不知道今天上课时, 我偷偷想了你十分钟, 我就是喜欢想你的感觉。。。

Tuesday, April 03, 2007 2:37:27 PM UTC  #    Comments [4]  | 
Friday, January 26, 2007

这应该是我以最开心的心情写的blog了。

今天我是毫无疑问的不想工作。。。 所以我在整理文件和CD。。。 怎知道让我找到了10年前的回忆! 呵呵。

18岁的我到底是在想什么的。 28岁在看回18岁写的东西, 真的就只有回忆和快乐。 可能到了我38岁在看回28岁的blog, 又会是这样的一个感觉吧!真的。。。 这不是满足感也不是单单开心。 是喜悦, 就像重遇失散多年的老朋友。

 

18岁的网页, 写的是我的故事。

28岁的blog, 写的还是我的故事!

38岁的blog, 写的应该是我们的故事!:-D

 

请看看我18岁的网页了的一些点滴吧!

 哈哈 好“手”吧?

 

一些留言

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wei khang - 04/28/98 14:15:20
My URL:http://www.sarawak.com.my/pwkhang
My Email:weikhang@hotmail.com
State: you know alredi
Country: don't ask me this , you knew it
Icq uin: NAAaaaAAaa

Comments:
Simple is good Good is simple just look nice, very nice no fancy look but simple simple and beautiful

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san - 06/04/98 12:44:48
My Email:csand81@hotmail.com

Comments:
哈喽!又是我..... 我并不是故意写两次的...不好意识. 哇!批评自己的导师批评到你这么过瘾是还第一次见呢~! (真够坦白..哈!) 故事写得也蛮好的嘛~!张学友的歌迷果然不是盖的!!!! hehehe~

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mike - 06/15/98 08:40:04
My URL:http://members.xoom.com/chin_jack/
My Email:miketys@hotmail.com
State: kl
Country: malaysia

Comments:
hello i like you homepages too it is simple but beautiful!

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Yung Hui (flash) - 08/02/98 07:22:10
My URL:http://www.geocities.com/paris/rue/2424
My Email:secret_garden@rocketmail.com
Icq uin: 6854802 (Please kacau me as often as u like!)

Comments:
My advise to all visitor to this page: Dont ask this guy to sign ur gb unless u wanna turn ur gb to free sex "hot-e-mail" on-lines list ... but if u r looking for hot pics... u have met the right person, come to my hp .. i'm sure u'll shock see it 1... he e.. dont blame me Kok Ming, u the 1 who teach me sign gb like this 1... btw nice stories u have here, and it's amazing u guys managed to upload tonnes of mp3 into ur hp... impressed!

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Adwin - 08/02/98 15:47:30
My URL:http://www.sarawak.com.my/mig
My Email:adwin38@hotmail.com
State: Sarawak
Country: Malaysia
Icq uin: 1598708

Comments:
I am Wei Khang's friends & he's the one to show me your web-site.I like your homepage,at least it provide me some amusement while I feel tired. Where's your photo? You should have add in one so as we know how u look like! Thanks & keep in touch. Adwin.

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还记得那时候, TITANIC (铁达尼) 是风靡全球的电影。。。

 

 

原来我以前是真的是非洲和尚(黑人憎)。。。 哈哈

Save as 在从自己的电脑放大来看哦!

暂时写到这里吧!

反应好的话, 我还会放更多的文章上来哦!

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